When someone wrongs us, have we first examined our own part in the situation?

This source-based Hagut Yosef essay explores the question: When someone wrongs us, have we first examined our own part in the situation? The canonical Hebrew article develops the theme through Torah sources and reflection on human life. This localized discovery layer preserves the meaning and source identity; it does not add a new halakhic, historical, psychological, medical, legal, or empirical claim beyond the Hebrew source.