A Moment to Think
A Moment to Think

What do we do with all the resolutions we made on Yom Kippur?

Rabbi Yosef WeizmanRabbi and lecturer
Rabbi Yosef Weizman

At Ne’ilah we were sure that this time would be different. We would speak differently at home, give more time to the children, study more, get angry less and put the phone aside. Then life returns.

Perhaps that is why Jewish practice does not allow inspiration to remain abstract. The Rema records the custom to begin working on the sukkah immediately after Yom Kippur, moving from one mitzvah to another (Orach Chaim 624:5).

There is deep human wisdom here: do not leave awakening as a feeling. Give it hands. Pick up a hammer. Move a board. Do something. Many great resolutions disappear because they remain in the realm of inspiration. A person decides to be a more present father but never decides when the phone will be turned off. He decides to learn but never chooses a time.

An intention that never receives an address in the calendar often remains only a wish. The way to preserve a great moment is not to force yourself to feel it forever. Take one thing from it and give it a concrete form today. Lives do not change because of the resolutions that moved us, but because of the resolutions that received hands and feet.

Which one Yom Kippur resolution can receive a specific time, place and action today?

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